I was cleaning out my email and I found this letter that was intended to destroy my life. The new supply/new gf sent this to my boss (who knew my ex was following me and harassing me) in efforts to get me fired. This woman didn’t care that I had children to feed, she only cared about removing my name from her new boyfriend’s mouth, and punishing me for his obsession. I now, know how narcissists play the game.
I thank God my boss and I communicated regularly and she knew my ex was the one who was actually harassing me, getting into my work email, and following me around town. He coerced this stranger to write a letter/do his bidding/lying. Some people are so desperate and so toxic, they’re willing to do anything just to say they have someone in their life. My boss immediately sent this letter to our campus security and other leaders within our district, expressing her concern for my safety.
I’m sharing this to let you all know that I truly understand your struggles. I had never met/spoken to the woman who wrote this letter, and I still haven’t. How did she know where I worked? How did she know I was a teacher? Why did she take the time to look up my information just to write a very immature letter to professionals who in the end, questioned her mental health and advised me to be careful with people like this. This is what’s called abuse by proxy.
The saddest part of the story is, after I shared news of this letter publicly on my social media page a few days after my boss received it, my ex had one of his friends call me and ask if I would remove his name from the post because he didn’t have anything to do with it. But I was the one harassing and stalking, right?
Y’all, it took a long time, but I am proof that you can heal from this type of foolishness. God bless all of you on your journey. This is what people who pretend to love you will do to you in the end. It’s sick and it’s sad.
Blessings to you all!